I live with chronic pain and depression which, along with the meds, has an impact on my labido. We always discuss it beforehand and make sure both of us are interested.Ī big part of it is being honest with yourself too though to ensure you're not saying 'ok' even if you're not. We've done saunas, app hookups, hooked up with friends/acquaintances. When we started getting serious we talked about it and were both happy with the idea of group stuff as long as we were together. When we started dating we weren't expecting the other to be exclusive. We've always been good with communication, that's a big part of it.
